wow... britney looks bad!
Wednesday March 14, 2007

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A source close to Britney Spears and Kevin Federline tells Us Weekly that though the pop star, 25, and her rapper ex, 29, were "very close" to finalizing a divorce settlement and custody agreement earlier this year - "the money had been worked out, and they were going to share custody of the kids," says the insider - Spears' wild antics led Federline to rethink the plan.
In fact, he even "had his lawyer draft a file for a court order to take the kids [Sean, 18 months, and Jayden, 6 months] away from Britney," adds the source.
But now that she has settled into life at Malibu, California's Promises Residential Treatment Center (complete with outings to Malibu Gym for kickboxing sessions, as well as visits from her dad on March 11, and Federline and the kids on March 7 and March 11), her ex's fears have subsided.
Says the pal, "Kevin is relieved."
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Your right she didn't get a chance to find herself like a "normal" person, but she should have thought about that before she had kids. She needs to grow up, and be a mom. She shouldn't have custody till she can prove herself.
I have to say some people are evil. I can see if she molested someone, was a drug dealer or even killed someone then I would say she is unfit to raise a child but come on she's only been partying and showed her(ya know). You have to realize that she is trying to find herself which I'm sure everyone does @ some point in their life. Maybe in college( remember what you did, hmmm?)but she didn't have that opportunity to let loose at that age in her life, and she wants some of the adolesant life that she missed. Now I won't say she is right for indulging too much but give her a chance. These are her children. A bad mother shakes her child, beats her child or starves her child. I wouldn't say she is a bad mother because she went to some parties. Every one who is a new mother knows that some things don't always go right, you don't always do things the right way and we don't have people stalking our every move. Anyone who says that they did everything right in life is full of sh$$.
Nobody, Kevin will surely pimp out the kids to get money for his next album, Britney will leave alcohol and pills for the kids to OD on in between losing her pants.
Oh come Britney's mom should get custody? she's exploited her kids since they were little. She just wants the money too. Where was she when all of this was going on? Some picture of her she was shown shopping! I think those kids need to be with their parents. Neither Britney or Kevin have done anything so horrific that the kids should be taken away. The goal of any family court is to unite the kids with their biological parents. You have to do something REALLY bad to have your parental rights terminated all together. They are just having a hard time. Lots of people go through stuff like this. I bet even some of the people on here who are saying negative things about her have.
I hope Britney's mom gets full custody of her grand children. She is the only positive and constant parental figure in Sean & Jayden's lives. Besides she should take them away from the Hollywood scene. They should be raised in Kentwood, Louisiana with the Spears family. You rarely hear about the Federline family being involved in the boys lives.
Britney doesn't give a damn about her kids...now we're hearing that she hook up a guy name Jason from some rock band I never heard of. Britney is so unpredictable and unstable and too selfish to be a mom. She said she loves her children, but she sure has a funny way of showing it...action speaks louder than word. I love my child and I enjoy spending quality time with him (day and night) and yes like everybody else, I like to have an odd time out (going out with friends/families and partying etc). Everything is always about "HER". I'm getting tired of everyone making excuses and defending her actions saying "so what, she made a mistake." crap. Her life has been spiraling out of control for two plus years and never once did she ever learn her mistakes. It was mistakes after mistakes after mistakes. Yes she finally went to rehab, but remember she was forced to. Time will tell, we will see how she turns out after she leaves rehab, but I bet any money she will not change, she will be the same ole Brit.
Whatever she has gone through that she didn't deserve in that devil town, I am sorry, but she has brought all this other misery on herself. She needs to take her medicine. She doesn't deserve any press time after the things she has done.
I really can't understand why she's smiling in every picture. She has NOTHING to smile about she has destroyed her career and made a TOTAL A$$ of herself. She should really be hiding her face, I sure would be if I was her. Everyone is laughing at you, not with you Britney.
I think Both Kevin and Britney should have joint custody of the kids, but if Britney should revert to her destructive behaviour then I say Kevin should get sole-custody of those boys, Britney acts as if she's a child and seem to refuse to take responsiblies for her actions, Britney needs to grow up and act like a woman of 25 and mother of 2.
Britney needs to calm down and look at the life she's living, and ask herself if the way she has been living is the way she wants her boys to grow up seeing her, and if she has any sense at all she would back the fu*k up and clean up her act.
When Kevin realize that his partying behaviour might make him lose his kids he backed his as* up and calm down, Britney doesn't seem like she wants that, she was force into rehab and she stayed because of threats she will lose the kids, if she doesn't think she has a problem, rehab isn't going to help her.
You may not like Kevin for whatever stupid reason you might have, but Kevin seem the most fit and stable parent at this time, and he should be the one to atleast have sole-custody of the kids for a while and later they share custody, this way Kevin can keep a close watch on the development of his boys.
Another thing Kevin didn't have to fight Shar to see his kids, she wasn't hiding then and all over the place, taking them from state to state, so there was no need to take her to court to see them, all his children are his, nowhere did anybody hear Kevin disowning any of his kids, he didn't marry a rich woman and not give a bleep, Shar herself said that Kevin sees his kids, and though he doesn't give her money for child support, her pays for their private school education, so the only thing Shar as to really provide for them is food, and trust me Kevin's kids will not starve even if they're living with him.
I can't believe i'm saying this , but i think that Kevin should have them, well at least for the next 6 months, she's completely off her rocker
I can't believe anyone defends this low-life has-been, someone said "we can't judge because we haven't been in the spotlight" well dumba$$ that's exactly why we judge....because these idiots are in the spotlight and are making complete fools of themselves on purpose!!!! They know what they're doing. Are you saying trashy Britney, knowing full well she was going to get followed and have her picture taken, really didn't know she 'forgot' to wear underwear, give me a break!!!! This tramp isn't making mistakes on accident, she's doing it to get your attention because no one cares about her anymore!!! No mother that runs around acting like her should be aloud to keep her kids. She's not sick, she's a inmature, selfish, irresponsible, has been, attention seeking excuse for a human being!!!!!
Honestly......neither of them. This is a joke. K-Fed's an unfit parent to begin with; he doesn't even have custody of his two kids with Shar Jackson. And Britney's a mess right now. I didn't think it was possible to make K-Fed look good, but Britney's doing a darn good job of it. Does Britney's mother have any rights to the kids if both parents are unfit?
I'm in dead shock that this is the 36th comment
Whateva!!! I think neither of them should have the kids...Who do you think Britney was doing coke, and drinking,etc with? KEVIN???? I mean. Come on!!! I think they both need help. She just cant handle it, Post partum is ruff, and I think she will get out of rehab, have the kids, and keep making music.As for him, he can do another commercial.
heres the bottom line, not a single one of us here can say that we have been in the exact and i mean exact, celebrity life and all, situation that she is in. Every person is different and handle things in a different way. I wont judge her or kevin until i have met each one of them perminately. Not to mention whoever in the hell it was that said she has been photographed in an extreme rage well you know what if the stories are true and thats the night kevin and her mother refused to hand the kids over to her, you can bet i would fly off the handle too if not only that was going on but there were a several cameras in my face at the same time. Yes she has issues but so does everyone else on this planet. She is a human being like the rest of us and should be given a chance to make things right.
Uhm, hate to break it to you.... but the only way the grandmothers would get custody would be if BOTH parents were shown to be unfit. And as I see it, right now, only one of them is unfit, and that would be Britney. The courts arent going to just give 2 children to their grandparents because people believe that the father is using them as a "meal ticket". That is absolutely stupid to even think. Kevin seems to be a good father who has stepped up and is taking care of his children while their mother is battling some problems in her life. He didnt fight for custody of his other 2 because their mother is a good mother, he had no reason. I think that for now, they should stay with Kevin, and after Britney is recovered and is stable again, she should gradually begin to gether kids back, and they share custody of them.
At first I didn't like Kevin, but I think the kids will be better off with him. He won't be scrutinized by the media as much as she will and well look at what it's done to her! She's a has-been and probably won't ever make a come back because of her antics. Plus he's more settled at this point. If she proves herself then she can have them over on weekends but other than that Kevin should get the main custody of the boys.
I think custody should be given to the GRANDMOTHERS - Kevins' mother & Lynne Spears. Kevin's only taking the boys on because it's his meal ticket - c'mon, who's paying for the boys daily upkeep right now? Lynne has been helping him this whole time because she truly has the love & patience for her grandsons. Britney's trash. I've lost all respect for her once & for all. She burned her bridge. Britney will never be able to recover nor make a come back. She's just a teenie bopper high on coke who thought she was on top of the world. Money does buy alot Brit - just not true happiness.
Kevin should get custody. Britney proved to everyone that she is not stable enough to raise those boys. They deserve to have a normal upbringing and Britney can't provide that for them.
Both of those two people are drug users or addicts of some sort......orginally I felt the kids needed to be with their mother, and I still feel this way. I think she may have been going thru some postpartum blues issues to include two new kids, a divorce from free loader husband etc....thats alot for a woman who "its been all about her" to go thru. I like and support Britney and I hope she can get thru this and move on in her life. she is so young and so many changes are going to occur in her life. I'm 45 so I know what I'm talking about. If she can see the light now she can go off into blissful millionair happiness living in wonderful california raising her kids.
Yeah, Kevin should have the kids. He might be a gold digger...but he isn't crazy. Britney can't even take care of herself...how the hell is she supposed to take care of another life? I used to be a huge Britney fan...don't get me wrong, I like her music...but the person that she is and has been hiding throughout all these years makes me lose all respect for her as a human being.
Regardless of whatever Kevin's intentions were when he got with Britney, she was also aware he was with another woman who had a baby on the way. So I am so sorry if I don't feel sorry for her, what goes around comes around and she was fully aware of what was going on. As far as her drinking, and drug use, right now he should have the kids they are his kids, and he seems to have settled down some, even Shar said he is a good dad, he might be just a bad guy for women. As someone who has kids and had some depression after one thier births. I still did not go out pantiless, or do coke, and constantly drink, and then shave my head. She is a country trash who has been acting like trash for the past 2 years and now it just came to a head and fully exploded. Money can only cover up BS for so long, she is a coke head period! Would you want your kids around that enviroment? She needs rehab, and she needs to work with Kevin as a support system so they can raise healthy kids.
Honestly, I dont think now is the time to decide who gets custody. How about waiting a couple of months after she's out of rehab to decide who gets custody? Only time can tell who really steps up to the plate, and is the best parent for those babies. In my opinion, they both seem irresponsible. But hey, who cares what I think! It's all up to the courts. Those poor kids.
K-Fed is just putting on a front to keep the kids. His ex wasn't loaded with money, and he had no problem letting shar keep his other kids. When him and Brit were married, who was with the kids most of the time while he was partying? And now, when she's single and wants to party, she makes a few mistakes. Oh well. She should be the one to raise them and have full custody. K-Fed ex just wants money.
who the hell really knows who is more qualified to care for those children? just because BS (lol) ran around town panty-less and value-less, but is now in rehab, doesn't make her a bad person or a bad mother. and just because KF is a party-hopping, bleep-hugging, money-grubbing, wanna-be gangsta rappa, doesn't make him a bad person or a bad father either.
hmmmmmm...i think i just confused myself.
it's fun to poke fun, but really...who really knows anything about these two people on a personal level, other than those who are close to them.
i only know what i read, which isn't saying a hell of a lot (lol).
brit seems to be staying in rehab this time, and kevin seems to have slowed way down with his wild ways.....so i would have to go for half and half. brit on weekends and mon-tues, and kev on wed-fri, with alternating weekends or something. it'd be hard for me to be the judge how actually makes this call. especially since they're both making an effort to clean up.
It's proven that 25-70% of women have some form of postpartum depression...whether it be "the baby blues", actual postpartum, or postpartum psychosis. Does this mean that all of these women should have their children taken away from them? Postpartum depression is extremely common and easily treatable. If Andrea Yates had been treated properly then she wouldn't have committed the horrific crimes that she did. There is absolutley no reason why Britney shouldn't have custody or shared custody of her children. Honestly...does anyone even have proof that she has postpartum depression? Or is that just what everyone believes now because that's what the tabloids say...we all no how truthful the tabloids are. I just wish people that are on the outside looking in would stop judging others. I woudl hate for someone to read something about me in a magazine and then just assume that they new what was best for me and my family.
I think it is a shame what is going on
sometimes when you really stop to look at a situation
in your life you just keep running away until it all crashes down and I think that is what happened
(and the drugs dont help)
well i guess i did sound like an idiot. thank you for clearing that up. but she still shouldn't have custody of her boys for a while.


